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My Story 

 

From chasing validation to creating love that feels real & how relationships became my greatest teacher.

 

 

 

 

Hi, I’m Rene.
I co-founded and managed a travel company for more than 10 years, taking thousands of people to dream destinations around the world. From the outside, it looked perfect: freedom, adventure, success. But it was also a life built on performance and external validation.

On the inside, a big part of my ego was fueled by validation from women and praise from other men. But this was surface-level-me, disconnected, and it never filled the deeper needs inside.

The turning point came through relationships. Because unlike business, you can’t “perform” your way into real intimacy. The deeper I went with women, the more my hidden fears and survival strategies came out: people-pleasing, fear of rejection, avoidance of conflict.

Relationships are mirrors. They don’t just show your best parts, they expose the ugly ones you’ve spent years hiding. And at the same time, they are the biggest catalyst for growth, if you create awareness and have the tools to use those learnings.

So I started a different journey. I trained in breathwork, nervous system regulation, and trauma-informed coaching. I began working with high-performing men through my company ReallyAlign: founders, CEOs, athletes, and creatives. Men who had success on paper, but felt disconnected, misunderstood, or stuck in repeating patterns in love.

At the same time, I spent many years living in Ukraine and Poland. There I learned the unique relationship dynamics in Slavic culture, the strengths, the blind spots, the beauty and the misunderstandings that often happen between women and successful men. I saw how powerful this match can be, and also how easily these couples miss each other and lose connection.

That’s why my work became about bridging the two.
Helping men open their hearts without losing strength.
Helping women understand men more deeply than most men even understand themselves.
And helping both sides meet in a relationship that is not just passionate, but also safe, inspiring, and alive.

What I Do

I work with:

Men who are successful in life but want more depth, safety, and connection in love. Men who want to stop repeating old patterns, lead with clarity, and create trust without losing polarity.

Women who want to understand men at a deeper level, embrace their feminine energy, and create relationships with successful, open-hearted men where they feel chosen, safe, and fully loved.

This is for people who don’t just want surface-level dating tips or temporary fixes. It’s for those who want relationships that become a true source of energy and inspiration, not stress and conflict.

My Approach

Most coaching is one-sided, either for men or for women. But I work on both sides of the coin. Because real love happens when both understand each other.

Here’s what makes my approach different:

  • Conflict as connection — moving from avoiding conflict to feeling safe in it, so it becomes a superpower, a way to deepen trust and intimacy instead of destroying it.
  • Masculine and feminine polarity — teaching men to lead with presence and women to feel safe to relax into their feminine, creating attraction that doesn’t fade.
  • Owning triggers — learning to recognize and take responsibility for your reactions, instead of blaming or disconnecting.
  • Nervous system awareness — shifting out of stress, reactivity, and overthinking into calm, clarity, and presence.
  • Communication as a tool — saying the hard truths with honesty and respect, so both partners feel seen and understood.

Why This Is Different

 

Because I’ve worked so deeply with high-performing men, I know what they fear, what drives them, and what they secretly crave but rarely admit.

And because I’ve spent years in Slavic culture, I know the desires and struggles of women who love deeply, who bring immense feminine strength, but often feel misunderstood by men.

I bridge that gap.
 So women stop doubting if they’re “too much” or “not enough.”
 So men stop hiding behind performance and finally feel safe to lead with their heart.

What You Can Expect

Through this work, you’ll learn how to:

  • Turn conflict into deeper connection instead of distance
  • Communicate clearly and authentically, without games
  • Build polarity and attraction that keeps growing
  • Create relationships that feel safe, inspiring, and alive
  • Stop people-pleasing and start living in alignment with who you truly are

Most of my clients say the same thing:
“I thought I understood relationships. But this work showed me myself, and my partner, in a way I never imagined.”

A Few Facts About Me:

  • Austrian, lived in 7 countries including Ukraine & Poland, traveled 70+
  • Former football player, fitness & health enthusiast
  • Built a successful travel company
  • Now co-leading ReallyAlign, a global men’s personal development company
  • Passionate about freedom, growth, and creating love that is both safe and alive

The deepest relationships aren’t the easiest. They challenge you, expose you, and grow you. But if you’re willing to see yourself and meet the other fully, that’s where pure love begins.

What’s Next?

Contact me via WhatsApp (+49 162 3226900) or fill out the form below!